Never Beg A Woman To Love You Or Date You – Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Advises Men
Never Beg A Woman To Love You Or Date You – Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Advises Men
Nigerian relationship coach and pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has shared a strong message to men in a recent post on X (formerly Twitter), urging them to value themselves in relationships.
In the post seen by Hypes Media, he advised men never to beg a woman for love or a relationship, stressing that doing so does not lead to genuine affection.
“Men stop begging women to love you or date you. What you will get is pity not love,” he wrote.
According to the pastor, love should be mutual and freely given, not something forced or pleaded for. He emphasized that when a man lowers himself to beg for attention or affection, it often results in pity rather than real emotional connection.

His message serves as a reminder for men to maintain self-respect and seek relationships built on genuine interest and mutual value.
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Men stop begging women to love you or date you
What you will get is pity not love
I will share more with you on sunday evening at the men mentoring session “your girlfriend is not your wife “
— kingsley okonkwo (@kingsleypst) February 18, 2026
Source: hypesmediagh.com
